Thursday, December 31, 2009

What Did you Do this YeAr ?

It's the morning of the Last Day Of The Year [as it shall henceforth be known] and I'm wondering where the year 2009 went?

I'm trying to recollect what I did, what I achieved, and try as I may my mind is a blank.

What did you do this year?

How did You make a difference?

Did you make a difference?

I think that is the scariest part...

Are you the same person you were last year?

Or did you evolve, perhaps defeat your vices?

Did you conquer you temper, kick that butt, throw the last bottle of bozze into the bin and never buy another?

Were you kind and compassionate?

Or did you leave that puppy with the broken leg out in the cold because... well there are so many such pups how many can we save?

Did you at least save the one you knew about?

Did you?

Did you try to improve your relationships with people?

Did you try to be honest with them?

Being honest is so hard. One never knows how someone else will respond does one?

Did you realise the perils of gossipping?

Did you try to see the good in people instead of bitching about their dark shades?

Did you try helping someone get ahead?

Even if it is in a goal you yourself want to succeed?

Did you give your shivering watchman a cup of tea without him asking?

Did you stand by your beloved in their times of need?

Even if they pushed you away?

Especially if they wanted to be left alone? No one really does you know.

Did you love them better than ever?

Even when they cursed you?

Especially when they cursed you.

Did you say what was on your mind and mean it?

To those who matter to you anyway.

Did you clear things up with people?

Doesn't it feel great?

Think, think of all you did, all you want to do and all you are capable of doing.

Then do it.

Think of what you are, what you really want to be and what you Can be.
Then Be.

Happy new years!

26 lost souls found themselves in my mirror....:

ruSh.Me said...

Oh.. I have been a perfect balance of good n bad, naughty n nice.... No point being good all the time!! :(

Americanising Desi said...

wow wow wow so many questions and i havent pondered over any :(

Ramit said...

You asked for it!

From the top!

Did a lot of things this year!
Started my blog.
That's my difference.

No, I'm not the same person as last year! Lost some more hair, (actually all) and gained more circumference for my tummy. That's a changed person, isn't it?

Had no vices, don't smoke, don't drink, don't eat non veg, don't eat eggs. Gah!

Conquered my temper, yes, did not kick butt thought, got mine kicked all through, no booze anyways! Ha!

Kind, yes.
Compassionate, yes.
(I'm reading this aren't I?) :P

Didn't see a puppy anywhere, duh! Would love to have one though! Make it a chihuahua please!

Improved my relations, yes I did. I sure did.

I'm always honest. Duh!

Perils of gossiping? Huh? Wrong question! Hee hee!

I see good in everyone. Even me. Especially me. Gah!

Helped a lot of people. Got two couples married. That's my good deed for 2009. (don't kick my butt if they divorce later! Duh!)

My goal? Nah! Didn't like those two girls that way!

Gave a lot of people food. No tea though. Sowwiiieee!

Beloved? Who? My laptop? Yeah. :P

Yeah, I do love her better than ever. Even if she is a former heavy weight kick boxer champion.

She curses me all the time. Gah!

Yeah, no jokes here, I did say what was on my mind. Finally. Didn't help much. God is not listening! :(

And yeah, I cleared it up too. Didn't help much!

Bah! Irrelevant!

Yes Ma'am, will do!

Happy new Year!

P.s. If this comment is too long, delete it! But it will haunt you forever! :D

oRange* said...

:O at Ramit's Comment! lol

ooh, 2009 was lovely! seeing you post after a long long time btw!
happy new year!

Queenmatrai said...

I did some serious introspection this morning myself and blogged about it here -

Then Ramit sent me here to read what you had to say...

20-10 hope its well done for you :)

Gymnast said...

Wow ! those are a lot of questions. But yes , a few lessons learnt this year and a few battles won.

Hope 2010 brings a lot of new experiences. Happy new year !

Tongue-fu Lady said...

quite an amazing introspection...! and i just realised i had been too lazy...need 2 find cure for that itch in 2010 :P

Crafty said...

Hey Coffee!!!

Happy New Year! hope u had a great celebration! wish you and ur family loads of joy and happiness in 2010!!!!

been missing coz my office keeps me captive! but New yr wishes is not something to be missed!!!!!!!!!!

*sooper tight hugs*


CoFfEe AnGeL said... : I totally agree@!

CoFfEe AnGeL said...

@Americanisin desi : Socho socho !!

CoFfEe AnGeL said...

@Ramit : Chihuahua? Why dont u just keep a rat? :P ur post was simply lovely!! Thanks for recommending my blog to another person too! wil check out urs :)

CoFfEe AnGeL said...

@Orange : Thanks orange...exams n all na...

CoFfEe AnGeL said...

@Queen: I loved ur post! will say so on ur blog too

clear n concise!
thanks n welcome here !!

CoFfEe AnGeL said...

@Gymnast , Tongue Fu lady [wowowow], Crafty : Thanks and the same to u too!! missed interacting!

Pesto Sauce said...

Most important : Were you happy?

Anonymous said...

Your blog keeps getting better and better! Your older articles are not as good as newer ones you have a lot more creativity and originality now keep it up!

Ramit said...

I love chihuahua's! I think they're awesome!

And I don't need a rat! Got a girl instead! :p

Yeah, it's safe to say this. She'll never read this!

CoFfEe AnGeL said...

@Anonymous : Thank u!

@Ramit : boy is your girlfriend one lucky chick or what?

CoFfEe AnGeL said...

@PestoSauce : Oops. i forgot the most important one...

Shruti said...

Once again, a heartfelt post from you, Shweta. My answer is yes to some of the questions! And I feel great! :)

Wish you lots of love, peace, and happiness in 2010!

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Americanising Desi said...

happy new year to you :)
and where are you?

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Crafty said...

Hey Coffee angel! u've been missing all this new year... hope all's well?

Wish you a very Happy Birthday! got you up at my blog cup cake bday wishes section for Feb :D :D

hope u have an awesome celebration, wish you a year full of love & laughter.


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