Saturday, October 24, 2009

What DO women want?

Disclaimer : Feminists needn't take this post too seriously.

Saw What women want[Mel Gibson, Helen Hunt] for the upteenth. I just let movies play in the background sometimes, just so it feels like I'm not alone at home.

So anyway, I wondered...What do women want really? So naturally compiled a list!
Not all of you may want this stuff but some of it, sometimes...I'm sure!

- A home, just ours.
- Flowers [always, for no reason!]
- Calorie free Junk food.
- Better nooky [thats right.]
- A better figure [slimmer/fuller as applicable].
- To be less hard on ourselves.
- Someone [not our parents] who loves us just the way we are.
- Someone who supports our career choices, even when we're unsure ourselves.
- Someone who's loyal no matter who challenges us.
- Help around the house.
- Appreciation for managing a career, a family and a home.
- Equal help in doing the same.
- Less pressure to be perfect. No pressure, more like it.
- A real friend. The kind who always has our back.
- No grey hair/signs of ageing.
- No body hair [apart from head whereupon it should be plentiful.]
- A partner whos nice, with a hint of spice!
- An expression of what they mean to people.
- Honesty.
- Sincerety.
- To not have to judge any and every person they interact with.
- To not be judged all the time.
- To not have messy family affairs thrust upon them.
- To have their kids realise their mom's love them more than anything in the world and only want whats best for them.
- No menstrual cycles, or menopause. They both suck.
- Spontaneity.
- The time to weave day dreams.
- Style.
- Clothes that look brilliant on us.
- Heels that cause no long or short term pains whatsoever.
- To be pampered, to be coddled and to not have to be tough all the time.
- To not care if the in laws treat one like their own daughter or not. We have our own parents you know.
- No pain during childbirth. C'mon women are alone there, other than the drugs, nothing helps really.
- Someone who loves us to notice when we're tired or headachy or PMSing or cranky and make us a hot cup of tea/coffee. without us saying a word. Yes...we do want mind readers.
- Actual confidence. [Pretending is one thing...]
- To drink and not have people raise their eyebrows.
- To have sex before marriage and not have our character and morals questioned.
- A good night's sleep. Without an alarm.
- To not have to haggle with every vendor possible.
- For our past not to matter.
- For our education to matter more than our skin tone. Our looks.
- For our kindness to matter more than our ability to flatter, manipulate and etc.
- hugs. Sponaneous ones!
- Chocolate.
- To have a star named after us.
- To be taken care of when we're sick. [Not by a nurse in a hospital.]
- To be able to focus when driving.
- To be able to show our weakness, our anger, our frustration, our grief.
- For every kiss to remind us of our first :) [ok I made that up, its just me.]

Among other things... :)

37 lost souls found themselves in my mirror....:

Tongue-fu Lady said...

Well said girl! so true...woman really wants this stuff =)

Pesto Sauce said...

Thats a bit of a million dollar question. Many are not able to decipher of who women really are, let alone what they want

ruSh.Me said...


For what we are, for what we do, and what we are capable of...

Sameera said...

Good work girl!

Can you like publish your link somewhere so that everyone reads this...!:)

CoFfEe AnGeL said...

@Tongue FU lady : I cannot get over ur pseudonym :D thanks but i dont think ive done half the job i should have! theres no end to what women want!!!

CoFfEe AnGeL said...

@Pesto sauce: reallyyyy? just a million? i think u cant put a price its that invaluable a question...just imagine how rich u wud b if u had the answer...imagine?

CoFfEe AnGeL said... : you know i thought of that...but i dint want to ask for respect. I think im at the point where respect for women NEEDS to be a given u know?
OF course then again it doesn't make sense asking for the other stuff either eh?
im a bundle of contradictions.

CoFfEe AnGeL said...

@sameera : welcome to my blog ! Sure ur welcome to post my link but pls let me know where u posted it :) just so i know yeah.

laddu said...

It was soo informative....I will refer to it in future :):)

Shruti, Mumbai said...


I have been reading your blog for almost past six months. I love each and every post of yours..especially.."This is how I love" and "what do women want". I definately eant all of the things mentioned above. Reading your blog is a true joy. Thanks

CoFfEe AnGeL said...

@Laddu : Haha...yeah bookmark this article. if u can think of anything i cud add here for other people's reference do tell me :)

CoFfEe AnGeL said...

@Shruti : Welcome to my blog shruti ... am so happy to hear u like it :) dont thank me, im grateful to u for commenting...pls do so more often :) makes me smile a lot!

oRange* said...

so very true sweets!
make the guys read this :P

Sumit said...

OMG!! So many things???

CoFfEe AnGeL said...

@Orange : may all the guys possible read and learn :)

CoFfEe AnGeL said...

@Sumit : Dost you haven't heard the half of it...this is just...the base of the cake...theres fillings and fruits and icings too...

Pratz said...

love the background of ur blog !!

Anonymous said...

Ha ha, nice list :) I am sure plenty of us want many of these!

Men might also want some of these :)

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Zeba said...

loved this one.

CoFfEe AnGeL said...

@Pratz : ok....thank u i guess...

CoFfEe AnGeL said...

@ IHM : I guess men would but more often than not they get it anyway...women know what others want. but wen it comes down to us...we have to ask@!

@Zeba : Thanks!!

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workhard said...

Hi.. thats a pretty elaborate list... but hats off.. u worked hard for it...

Im sure men want a lot of things in that list too;)

Interesting to read.. and im gonna watch this move..

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Dreamer said...

Wow! What a comprehensive and wonderful list. Will settle for even half that list *sigh* :D

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Blessed Are The Meek said...

Regarding your comment elsewhere about hitting your would-be with a bottle - if the guy is massaging your ego, both of you are doomed. Coz you won't face a bigger enemy in this life than your own ego.

CoFfEe AnGeL said...

@blessed are the meek : i wud never hit him...i dint, just threw it generally...n he had self respect enuf not to massage my ego. the bottle incident was 2 yrs into our relationship. now we're 5 yrs into it.have grown, dumped both our egos as in love theres no place for it.n pls dont pass judgements n condemnppl to doom. no one is God,certainly not u.

Blessed Are The Meek said...

Pathetic choice of words by me in my previous comment. Sincere apologies. Best wishes for a long and blissful life together.

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